Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Holly Willoughb Cfake

Whence comes this feeling of love?

what love?
"I love you," she said ... What does it mean?
I react as if the meaning of the word was the same for me than for her, but is it true? Are we talking about the same? And do we know what drives us to say that?


Love does it because we need another?
Ask yourself these two aspects are not related to us ...
I like it because it meets my needs and what happens if it stops there? The would I always beyond reproach born? Is this love?

Why do we say to each other we love ? What makes that we need to specify, we can not say .... Let's be honest, it would be too easy to reply that we know that he will be pleased to know so we told him ... Honestly
, let us ask standest t is precisely when we say to another, "I love you" ... we expect something, but whatever ... ..


child whose needs are met, feels at peace and recognition vis-à-vis the one who took care of him ... is this what love?
Vis-à-vis our parents, we can love them or not ... if you feel somewhat " love "this may be because they have left a bitter taste of dissatisfaction of our emotional needs or other ...
Can we infer that we love them because they satisfied our needs?
Is it love or recognition? What is love?

Why love is it so volatile? We love today, we do more tomorrow ...
What happened? The events did not unfold as we demanded, the other he has more satisfied our needs?


What is this feeling that is born in us a desire to merge with another?
sensation known as "love" where does she? Is this really a conscious sensation from a free or Relan our old emotional gaps from our relationships with our parents. Are we free?

What is this sadness we feel during a marital separation? What makes us sad .... The fact of not being able to love each other or to consider the fact that we no longer loved each other? Finally, there is nothing preventing us from continuing to love each other ... ..
The key element is to be loved the other, the "I love you" is only intended to show each other that I want to continue to be loved by him. ... what is it love?
When this type of separation, are not we trying to play again for the umpteenth time the staging of our old pain of childhood?


we are aware of the theory of selfless love ... but beyond the rhetoric we've really enjoyed?
free man, filled with love and esteem for him he needs to be loved? Did he need to say his love for sure to be loved?

Love Does it free? ... For what purpose?
Free Love could be an entirely different nature and feel that what we have seen so far? Perhaps we could describe as "Love", this word has already been so used for anything other than what it is ...

What do you think ?......

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